Chanje Park

나와 사업에 대한 생각들

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The Office의 Did I stutter? 에피소드에 나오는 장면.

Michael: [starts to cry] I don’t understand why you keep picking on me.
Stanley: Oh, for the love of God.
Michael: You just, do, and I don’t know why, so… please help me understand.
Stanley: Fine. Here it is: you are a person I do not respect. The things you say, your actions, your methods, and style. Everything you would do, I would do it the opposite way.
Michael: Well Stanley, maybe you’re feeling that you don’t respect me because you don’t know me very well.
Stanley: Michael I have known you a very long time, and the more I’ve gotten to know you, the less I’ve come to respect you. Any other theories?
Michael: All right, you don’t respect me. I accept that. But listen to me, you can’t talk to me that way in this office, you just can’t. I am your boss. Can’t allow it.
Stanley: Fair enough.

상대방을 전혀 존중할 마음이 생기지 않고, 누구도 양보하거나 받아들일 수 없는 상황이라면, 어떻게든 상황을 개선하려는 노력을 하기 보다는, 차라리 깔끔하게 정리하고 헤어지는 것이 오히려 서로에게 있어 더 나을 것 같다는 생각을 한다.

Written by Chanje Park

June 17th, 2021 at 1:33 pm

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